My Buddy 4" Silicone Packer
$30.00Discreet shipping on every order. Your order ships in a plain, unmarked box — no logos, no product names, nothing that reveals what's inside. The shipping label won't mention Transguy Supply or any product details. Learn more
Premium silicone at $30 — the most accessible upgrade from TPR in the collection.
The My Buddy 4" Silicone Packer sits right at the entry point of the TGS silicone lineup — body-safe, non-porous, realistic detailing, and genuinely comfortable for all-day wear at a price that makes the switch from TPR an easy call. Smaller balls, compact profile, natural hang — designed to disappear under whatever you're wearing without drawing attention or creating bulk.
Made from 100% body-safe silicone that stays soft day after day, doesn't degrade, and never smells. Realistic head, vein texture, and defined shape create a natural look that holds up to a squeeze test. Available in 5 custom TGS skin tones and compatible with any packing underwear or harness in the collection.
Want a little more presence? See the My Buddy 5" Silicone Packer. Want the most popular silicone packer in the collection? See the #1 Trans Packer.
💪 Bulge Rating: 3 / 5
A subtle, discreet silhouette — proportionate and natural for everyday wear. Use the TGS Bulge Rating Guide to compare every packer in the lineup.
⚙️ Product Details
- Material: 100% Body-Safe Silicone
- Total Length: 4 inches
- Underside Shaft: 3.5 inches
- Shaft Circumference: 4.5 inches
- Ball Width: 2 inches
- Ball Thickness: 1 inch
- Flat Base Length: 3.25 inches
- 5 custom TGS skin tones — go one shade darker than your forearm for the most realistic result
- Realistic texture with defined head, veins, and compact ball profile
- Packs naturally down for a discreet, low-profile bulge
- Fits most packing underwear and harnesses
- Non-porous, odor-free, and phthalate-free silicone
🩲 Perfect Pairings
- Cake Bandit Packing Harness — secure, low-profile positioning under any underwear
- Cake Bandit Packing Boxer Briefs — built-in pouch holds your packer snugly in place all day
🧼 Care & Cleaning
- Wash with warm water and mild soap or TGS Packer & Toy Cleaner after each use
- Dishwasher safe — top rack, no detergent, for a full sanitize
- Air-dry completely before storing
- Between uses, lightly dust with Packer Renewing Powder to maintain softness
- Store in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight
For more details, read our Packer Care Guide.
❓ FAQ
How does the My Buddy 4" compare to the #1 Trans Packer?
The #1 Trans Packer is our most popular model — slightly longer overall at 5" total with a heavier 7.5 oz weight and ultra-soft TGS signature silicone. The My Buddy 4" is more compact and lighter — a great fit if you want premium silicone at a lower entry price or prefer a more discreet, lower-profile pack.
Is this packer good for beginners?
Yes — the compact size and natural hang make it one of the easier packers to position and wear comfortably from day one. If you're new to silicone packing and want to start here before deciding on a larger size, this is a solid first silicone packer.
What's the difference between the 4" and the 5" My Buddy?
The My Buddy 5" has more length and a fuller silhouette — same body-safe silicone construction, more presence under clothing. Use the Bulge Rating Guide to compare both.
📦 Shipping & Returns
Orders typically ship within 1–3 business days in plain, unmarked packaging — no logos, no product names, nothing that reveals what's inside. Your bank statement will show "TG SUPPLY" only. Learn more about our discreet shipping promise.
All sales of STPs, packers, harnesses, pleasure toys, swimwear, and underwear are final due to legal restrictions. See our full Returns & Refund Policy.
All international orders are final sale. Local taxes, duties, and customs fees are the customer's responsibility. See Shipping Policies.
Customer Reviews
this packer is really great!!! wore it for a bit to get used to it. it's very comfortable and provides a natural look. highly recommend!!
5/5 this guy is perfect
I love it!
Literally life changing.
The price and material of this packer make this an excellent starter packer, and probably a lifelong pick for many people. It has the super-soft squish that I usually associate with TPE and other imitation skin, but the silicone material means it is hypoallergenic and durable. It arrived with what appears to be a very light dusting of powder--this easily washes off if you have allergy concerns, and powdering isn't necessary with silicone, but I do think the texture is very nice with a little cornstarch.
My complaints: first off, like almost every packer, it's mostly shaft with minimal balls. This would bother me less if it wasn't so universal. Similarly, it is currently only available circumcised, but I prefer an uncut packer when I can get it.
Also: the shape appears to be essentially a very small ****. Without gravity, it sticks straight out. On the one hand, this means you can bend the shaft to pack your choice of up or down without tearing, but it will slightly resist both of those. I constantly catch it on my pants when getting dressed (my new fave, the "#1 Trans Packer" Uncut, is noticeably larger but does not have this problem).
Lastly, it has bulging veins. I don't think I've seen flaccid bits with bulging veins. It's such an odd detail to include that will absolutely not be noticeable when worn.
It still gets 4 stars despite my complaints because, well, it's remarkably affordable, and the silicone is very nice. I usually wear jeans, and it looks reasonably natural there, although the aforementioned shape issue can look a little excited under thinner clothes.
(Group shot includes this packer, plus the aforementioned #1 Trans Packer, and the extra-small version of Pierre)
Customer Reviews
this packer is really great!!! wore it for a bit to get used to it. it's very comfortable and provides a natural look. highly recommend!!
5/5 this guy is perfect
I love it!
Literally life changing.
The price and material of this packer make this an excellent starter packer, and probably a lifelong pick for many people. It has the super-soft squish that I usually associate with TPE and other imitation skin, but the silicone material means it is hypoallergenic and durable. It arrived with what appears to be a very light dusting of powder--this easily washes off if you have allergy concerns, and powdering isn't necessary with silicone, but I do think the texture is very nice with a little cornstarch.
My complaints: first off, like almost every packer, it's mostly shaft with minimal balls. This would bother me less if it wasn't so universal. Similarly, it is currently only available circumcised, but I prefer an uncut packer when I can get it.
Also: the shape appears to be essentially a very small ****. Without gravity, it sticks straight out. On the one hand, this means you can bend the shaft to pack your choice of up or down without tearing, but it will slightly resist both of those. I constantly catch it on my pants when getting dressed (my new fave, the "#1 Trans Packer" Uncut, is noticeably larger but does not have this problem).
Lastly, it has bulging veins. I don't think I've seen flaccid bits with bulging veins. It's such an odd detail to include that will absolutely not be noticeable when worn.
It still gets 4 stars despite my complaints because, well, it's remarkably affordable, and the silicone is very nice. I usually wear jeans, and it looks reasonably natural there, although the aforementioned shape issue can look a little excited under thinner clothes.
(Group shot includes this packer, plus the aforementioned #1 Trans Packer, and the extra-small version of Pierre)
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