FTM Packing - Everything You Want to Know (and Then Some)
FTM Packing: Everything You Need to Know
If you're a trans man, trans masculine, gender expansive, gnc, or non-binary person exploring packing for the first time — or looking to upgrade your setup — this guide covers everything from the basics to advanced tips. Packing is one of the most common and accessible forms of gender affirmation, and getting it right can make a huge difference in your daily comfort and confidence.
At Transguy Supply, our team packs every day. This guide is written from lived experience, not just research. Let's get into it.
What Is Packing?
Packing is the practice of wearing a prosthetic (called a packer) in your underwear to create a natural-looking bulge. For many trans men and trans masculine people, packing reduces dysphoria and increases confidence in everyday life. Some people pack daily; others only for specific situations. There's no right or wrong way to do it.
Packers come in a range of materials, sizes, and price points. The most common materials are TPR (thermoplastic rubber) and silicone. TPR packers like the Mr. Limpy are soft, affordable, and great for beginners. Silicone packers offer a more realistic weight and feel but come at a higher price point.
How to Choose the Right Packer
Choosing a packer depends on a few key factors: your budget, the level of realism you want, your body size, and how you plan to wear it. Here's a quick breakdown to help you decide.
For beginners on a budget, we recommend starting with a TPR packer like the Mr. Limpy Small or Medium. These are soft, lightweight, and easy to position in your underwear. They're a great way to see if packing is right for you without a big investment. Browse our affordable TPR packers to find the right size.
If you want a more realistic feel, upgrade to a silicone packer like the Pierre Packer or the Number 1 Trans Packer. Silicone holds its shape better, feels more lifelike, and lasts longer with proper care. Check out our premium silicone packers for the full selection.
Size matters too — but bigger isn't always better. A packer that matches your body proportions will look and feel the most natural. As a general guide, smaller people or those who prefer a subtle look should go with a small (3–4 inches), while those wanting a more noticeable bulge can go medium (4–5 inches).
How to Wear a Packer
There are several ways to wear a packer, and the best method depends on your underwear and activity level. The most common methods are using packing underwear, a packing pouch, or a harness.
Packing underwear like the Cake Bandit Boxer Briefs have a built-in pouch that holds your packer in place without any extra accessories. This is the simplest and most popular method.
If you prefer wearing your own underwear, a packing pouch like the JoeYo Classic Pouch clips or pins into any pair of briefs or boxers. We carry pouches for different activities including swimming and sports. Check out our packing pouches.
For extra security, especially during physical activity, a packing harness holds your packer firmly against your body. Our Cake Bandit harnesses are designed for all-day comfort. Browse our packing harnesses.
Packing Tips for Beginners
If you're new to packing, here are some tips from our team and community to help you get started with confidence.
First, start small. A smaller packer is easier to position and less likely to shift throughout the day. You can always size up later once you're comfortable with the process. Additionally, the right underwear makes all the difference — invest in a pair of packing underwear or a quality pouch before you judge how a packer feels.
Furthermore, practice at home first. Wear your packer around the house for a few days before going out in public. This gives you time to find the best position and get comfortable with the look and feel. Beyond that, use packer renewing powder to keep your TPR packer soft and extend its lifespan.
Finally, remember that packing is personal. Some people wear a packer every day; others only sometimes. There's no minimum or maximum. Do what feels right for you.
STP Packers: Pack and Pee
If you want a packer that also lets you stand to pee, check out our STP (stand to pee) devices. Models like the STP Freely and The Lou STP are designed to function as an everyday packer and a urination device. Some, like The Lou, are 3-in-1 devices that also work for intimate play. Learn more in our STP Packer Tips guide.
Packer Care and Maintenance
Taking care of your packer extends its lifespan and keeps it hygienic. For TPR packers, wash with warm water and mild soap after each use, pat dry, and apply packer renewing powder to maintain softness. Store in a clean, dry place away from direct sunlight.
For silicone packers, wash with warm water and a toy-safe cleanser like our Packer & Toy Cleaner with Aloe Vera. Silicone is non-porous and easier to sanitize, but it still benefits from regular cleaning and proper storage.
Shop Packers at Transguy Supply
Ready to find your packer? Transguy Supply is a trans-owned store carrying a full range of FTM packers, packing underwear, STP devices, and accessories. Every product is chosen from lived experience, and every order ships in plain, unmarked packaging.
Browse our full packer collection to find the right fit for your body and your life.
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