How To Wear A Packer

For many transgender men and transmasculine individuals, wearing a packer can be an essential part of their transition, helping to alleviate gender dysphoria and present in a way that aligns with their gender identity. A packer is a prosthetic device designed to simulate the appearance and, sometimes, the feel of having male genitalia. If you're new to using a packer or considering whether it's the right choice for you, understanding how to wear one comfortably and confidently is crucial. This guide will walk you through the basics of choosing, wearing, and caring for your FTM packer.

Choosing the Right Packer

Before you learn how to wear a packer, selecting the right one for your needs and comfort level is important. Packers come in various sizes, colors, and materials, with the most common being silicone, cyberskin, and soft plastic. Consider the following when choosing your packer:

  • Size: Opt for a size that feels right for your body and the kind of clothing you wear. A smaller packer might be more comfortable and realistic for daily wear, while larger packers are available for those seeking a more pronounced bulge.
  • Material: Silicone packers are durable, easy to clean, and have a realistic feel, but they tend to be pricier. Cyberskin and soft plastic packers offer a softer, more skin-like texture but can require more care to maintain.
  • Color: Look for a color that closely matches your skin tone for a natural appearance.

Wearing Your Packer

There are several ways to wear a packer, ranging from specialized underwear to DIY methods. Here's how to get started:

Specialized Packing Underwear

Packing underwear comes with a pouch or pocket where you can securely place your packer. This option is excellent for those seeking convenience and security without the need for additional harnesses or adhesive.

Packing Straps and Harnesses

Packing straps and harnesses hold the packer in place against your body. They're adjustable and can be worn with any underwear, offering flexibility in how you wear your packer.

DIY Methods

If you're not ready to invest in specialized packing gear, you can create a pouch by sewing a small fabric pocket inside your underwear or using a safety pin (with caution) to secure a sock pouch. Place your packer inside the pouch for a homemade packing solution.

Tips for Comfort and Confidence

  • Start Small: If you're new to packing, start with a smaller packer to get used to the sensation and appearance.
  • Maintain Hygiene: Clean your packer regularly according to the manufacturer's instructions to maintain hygiene and prolong the life of your packer.
  • Practice: Spend time wearing your packer at home to adjust to how it feels and moves with you before wearing it out in public.
  • Adjust as Needed: Don't be afraid to adjust your packer throughout the day for comfort and positioning.

Caring for Your Packer

  • Cleaning: Regularly clean your packer with mild soap and water, especially if it's made of silicone or another non-porous material.
  • Storage: Store your packer in a clean, dry place when not in use to prevent damage or deformation.
  • Handling: Be gentle with your packer, especially if it's made of a softer material that can tear easily.


Wearing a packer can be a significant step in your transition, helping you feel more aligned with your gender identity and confident in your appearance. By choosing the right packer for your needs, understanding how to wear it comfortably, and taking proper care of it, you can ensure a positive and affirming experience. Remember, the most important aspect of wearing a packer is how it makes you feel, so focus on what works best for you and your body.

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